My friend, it is too early to tell “I LOVE YOU” to someone you met just a month ago.
You see… You have your heart broken a couple of times. Yes, two times are a few in numbers, but the pain itself can never be measured by words or even statistics. It’s all because you expected too much. And the fact that people are telling you to let things happen for itself and you wouldn’t learn from it.
You don’t want to do the same mistake again, do you? I bet my butt you’ll being saying “No” at me.
Therefore, the solution is to apply your methodical being into this situation. Like how you eat your food or delaying your blog post publishing, take it slowly and easy. Just make sure you feel your presence at her and exchange words with her, nonsense or with sense. Communication is the key.
Enjoy all the text messages. Enjoy all the online conversations running until midnight. Enjoy all the lunch breaks. Enjoy all the train rides every after class. Enjoy the special dates. Enjoy all the cuddling, the patting in the head, the poking in the fingernails [and arms, hands, cheeks…], and the holding of hands during you and your significant other’s private time. Just enjoy being together.
Remember your date with her recently? The moon is staring over you and her at the balcony, people are walking around the baywalk area beside the mall, and you are whispering words with her while you’re hugging her very tightly.
Twin, I know… That you know that you like. You don’t know if the relationship will work that well.
We have the rest of our lives to find that out.
The both of you smiled, and hugged each other even tighter. That’s the highlight of you and your friend’s first date, you told me. Funny thing is, Mexican music is playing over the bar beside the balcony you and your twin are with.
Anyway… See? That’s a sign for things to come. Good things to come, that is. Or sort of?
Anyway, just enjoy being with her. I know she’s enjoying her time with you, as well. Relax. You and your “twin” will get “there”. Chances are it will.
By the way, you oh-so in love. Awkward. That’s so not you.
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I’m Dan Hellbound.
